Paul’s Letter to the Corinthians

Paul’s Letter to the Corinthians in which he says, “If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal,” and then he goes on to give his own definition of love. “Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful. It is not arrogant or rude.” And then he says, “Love does not insist on its own way.” That’s the piece of love I want to get at today. “Love seeketh not her own,” saith the poetry of King James’ day. “Love does not insist on its own way.” “Love seeketh not her own.”

http://www.firstparish.org/cms/sermons/958-who-do-we-want-to-become

Sharon Good - Good life coaching

surround yourself with positive and successful people and it will motivate you to be more like them.

people that are ahead are people who are wiling to keep learning. it's the old dogs who are unwilling to learn new tricks that are having a hard time moving into their next career.

assess your skill set and take some classes to fill in the gaps.

update your resume

targeting your transferable skills rather than your job history

nothing can take the place of persistence.

talents will not.nothing is more common than unsuccessful people with talents.

Genius is not: unrewarded genius is almost a proverb.

Education will not: the world is full of educated derelict. Persistence and determination is omnipotent.

• Each of us comes into this world with a unique set of gifts and talents. It is through these gifts and talents that we can not only bring the greatest joy into our lives, but also make our greatest contribution. My mission is to help people live joyful, authentic lives that reflect their passions and values.

• No dream is right or wrong, too big or too small. One of my passions is to encourage and support others to follow their desires and dreams despite the discouraging messages they've received. As children, we're applauded for our talents and steered away from the things in which we display less ability. I strongly believe that if we feel a burning desire to do something, there's a reason for it -- one that may not become clear to us until years down the road. We each have unique gifts that we bring to the world, and our desires lead us to express those gifts. In the process, we uncover hidden talents and develop new ones. I, personally, have found success in areas that I was attracted to, but in which I was considered to lack talent. If I can do it, so can you.

• We're living in a changing world where self-fulfillment and expressing our gifts and talents -- in other words, bringing meaning and purpose to our lives -- is becoming more important than acquiring wealth and status. We're in a transition period, and many of us are still finding our way out of the old paradigm into the new. Using the Life Purpose Process and my own life experiences, I get great joy and reward helping other people find their way through this transition into a new, more enjoyable life, to living their dreams.

• A lot of us get stuck in our past -- who we once were, what people told us about ourselves -- and we limit what we can do in the present and the future. By dropping the baggage of our past and changing the old, outdated beliefs, we free ourselves to soar into the future we dream of.

our new path calls on us to be willing to let go of the comfort of the old, familiar ways and open to learning new skills and new ways of being. -Sharon Good-

Ringing philosophies

" The revelations of the child are not at all so difficult to obtain, the real difficulty lies in the adult's old prejudices concerning him"

"A new education from birth onward must be built up. Education must be reconstructed and based on the laws of nature and not on the preconceived notions and prejudices of adult society."

Dr. Maria Montessori (The Formation of Man p.22 & p.97)

moral studies paid off..

In my How To teach race and culture notes. (

LOL)

(translation from bm to english) :P.

If you have money,

you will need to take care of the money,

if you have knowledge,

knowledge will take care of you.

If you have money,

you can keep the money,

the money will still be there,
but if you have knowledge,

keep it,

and it will disappear.

If you have money,

you can buy a house,

but with all the money alone,

you can't buy happiness in a home.

If you have the money,

you can buy medicines,

but with all the money you have,

you can't buy health.

If you have the money,

you can buy books,

you can buy many books,

but with all the money you have,

you can't buy knowledge.

Lastly,

if you have all the money,

you can buy plane tickets

to go any part of this world,

but with all the money you have,

you can't buy a ticket to heaven.

(Dr Yusof Othman,196,2005)


Psychology in Behavior Management

Non-assertive (Weak)

- I'm Not Okay.. I SUCK
- You're Okay... You're GREAT.
- I Failed
- You Succeed


Aggressive (Rude/ Violent)

- I'm OKAY I'm so Marvelous. I'm like the BESt of the Best
- You're Not OKAY You Suck to the MAXX :P
- I'm a WINNER, I WON I am the CHAMPION...
- You're Loser, YOU LOST BIG FAT LOSER!


Assertive (Wise)

- I'm OK
- You're OK TOO
- I SUCCEED
- YOU SUCCEED TOO (no fight .. no fight..)

Assertive psychology seeks to establish collaboration with fairness for achieving mutual interest. Creating a WIN-WIN situation and respecting the rights of others.

Don't ask what can the boss give you,

but ask what you can contribute to the boss.

Hope you had a good laugh...in reality huh? :P

Here is another comical story.

probably quite known already...

This is a story about four people:

Everybody, Somebody, Anybody and Nobody. There was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure Somebody would do it. Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it. Somebody got angry about that because it was Everybody’s job. Everybody thought Anybody could do it. It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when actually Nobody asked Anybody.

Mmmm.YUMMY

if only this comes out in my moral exams..bleuks..hehe

I surrender the wheel ..

20 going on 21.

time flies...

but i still don't fully understand myself...

life is pretty much a haywire at times

thank God for the things i love to do.

for the friends we have for the sisters and the brothers..

all that kicks up the spirit when we're down.



I wish it's sunday everyday. For i love teaching them...

It's when it's volunteer and yet we give our best

life tends to make us wayward...

At least the expectation given.

they say be realistic...

6 days of a week u're in the real world

when i say i want to live among the people of the paddy field

they are poor but happy

we strive to be rich but we're unhappy.

almost as hard to be pleased

tell us oh abba father

your plans for each an everyone of us..

help us surrender all.

but not be lazy.

awaiting to be accountable to our master.


pamie poetic wanna be.. :)